The decision to divorce has been made. What’s next? In the state of New Jersey, this process can be quick and relatively inexpensive, or it can drag on for years. Everything depends on your preparation. As an attorney with 30 years of experience, I have seen many cases that could have been avoided.
Emotions aside, documents on the table
The biggest enemy of your wallet is emotions. The court in Middlesex County is interested in facts: income, assets, debts. Before you file a petition, gather full financial documentation. Hiding assets is the worst strategy, which in NJ ends in severe penalties.
Common divorce traps
- Lack of a prenup: If you do not have a prenuptial agreement, the division of property is subject to the principle of “equitable distribution” (fair, not always equal division).
- The issue of the house: Often one party wants to keep the house at all costs, without considering the costs of maintaining it. Sometimes selling is a better solution.
- Children as a bargaining chip: Never use child custody to fight for money. Judges are very sensitive to this.
Consult your situation before taking legal steps. Schedule a divorce consultation with attorney Sliwinski.
